Wednesday, February 11, 2009

"Keep your Friends *close* BUT your Enemies closer!!!

"Revenge is a dish best served cold"

Listen people, what I learned about ANGER towards somebody who has upset you is simple - ITS NOT WORTH IT...

When someone goes out of their way to hurt you, its because 1- they have nothing better to do. 2- They are mean spirited 3- esoterically, my personal favorite~ there is some past -life drama going on...

REVENGE is simply NOT worth the time or effort! WHY? Its just a waste of energy. MOST importantly, it gives the OTHER person power. Thats EXACTLY what they WANT.

I actually knew someone, surprise, an ex boyfriend - who planned revenge on a kid who stole money from him, money that another friend gave him to buy weed. This EX now lives in China, hes not Chinese but Polish. He just must have been so bitter he had to run to the other side of the world lol.

Who am I to judge. We have all had "revenge" fantasies. Its best that we keep them inside our little brains: pretty please?

So take the high road. Yea, its easier said than done. In the end, you will come out the BETTER person!!!

To laugh often and love much... to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others, to give one's self... this is to have succeeded.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson:))



All the best,

Crystal xoxo.