SHE's Just NOT that into YOU: I could tell you why: then it wouldn't be a secret!

I was bored today, snowed in, & recovering from a cold. Found the "trailer" for the new movie & decided to search for Quotes from the Best selling book: "He's Just Not That into You".

For the record, I never bought this book or believed the guy who wrote it: Greg. and he had a "female" co-author Liz, but he takes ALL the credit > T*Y*P*I*C*A*L

Was this guy a FOOL for spilling the beans on the way men operate....

Some say its still a MAN's world. This book just proves it b/c its mainly from the MALE perspective - I have skimmed through the book & watched this man on OPRAH - its been 4 years. This CONCEPT will not go away.

Sure, I get it. Men are essentially cave men - on the hunt while women WAIT around thats the natural order of things for MILLIONS of years. Same in the animal kingdom - the only aggressive females are Black Widows & Praying Mantis - who eat their mate during & after conception -

I'm not the aggressive, TYPE-A- however, Im competitive. I also learned that if we WAIT for a man to pick us- 9 times out of 10, its a man we dont want. Most men, especially powerful ones - secretly enjoy being dominated.

They might marry Miss Safety blanket yet have spicy affairs with miss freak- between the sheets- if he finds a woman who can satisfy BOTH Madonna-whore complexes he's lucky.

So whats the purpose of this book ladies? Its not to teach us how to get laid it to to show us signs that he isn't on our team - so where is he? In a strip club, in a seedy bar, watching ESPN jerking off? WRONG.

Men have feelings just as much as women. This man who wrote this book was obviously scorned & believe me, sister, men can be just as spiteful as women & when their EGO is bruised - lets not go there: HUGH HEFNER ( still got love your you gramps).

Men will build Empires (or write silly books) to avoid feeling any pain. Women, we cry to our friends then veg out for a few weeks with a pint of ice cream watching old movies. One night stands are another option, those can get messy & turn out to be a waste of time.

What if for once, a woman stood up & told a man- I'm just not that into you because you are a lying, cheating, shady son of a gun - a man who cannot tell the women he loves the TRUTH is a no good coward anyways....

Men, you'd be surprised if you told your lady the truth from your heart - not your PENIS how understanding she would be - it hurts more to be caught in a lie - if these childish games weren't played- this man would never would have become a famous gazzilionaire exposing your B.S.

xoxo Crystal

Enjoy the quotes from the book:

EDIT YOUR DATING VOCAB~

"Friend" - A person who is your "pal" - generally means hes just not that into you.

"Busy" - means I'm the president of the United States. I'm on another planet. I'm in a really successful band - again, he's saying- I'm just not that into you.

This guy is brilliant. He goes out with you, dates you, breaks up with you, then continues to sleep with you, which basically absolves him of all responsibility toward your feelings. After all, you're not going out anymore. It's genius! It's diabolical! He should be writing a book! In fact, I bet this guy could get his own little cult going if he wanted to. And let me guess, you'd be happy to sign up for that as well. For the record, this guy doesn't "like you so much that he can't stop being around you." Because here's what guys don't do if they can't live without you: they don't break up with you. This guy is seriously not into you, it's crazy. The only way you're going to figure out how into you you are ... is how fast you get rid of him.


He will always be able to play the "friend" card on you. He only has to be responsible for the expectations of a friend, rather than the the far greater expectations of a boyfriend. He's got the ultimate situation: a great friend with all the benefits of a girlfriend, whom he can see or not see whenever he wants to. He may be one of your closest friends, but I'm sorry to say ... as a boyfriend, he's just not that into you.

Standard raising suggestions:
(I will not date a man who~)

a- Keeps me waiting on the phone.

b-Is not sure he wants to date me.

c-Makes me feel sexually undesirable.

d- Drinks or does drugs to the extent that makes me feel uncomfortable

e - FEARS talking about our FUTURE.

f - IS MARRIED!!!



Anyone have any thoughts/opinions on this topic?