Besides psychology & astrology & Tarot, I have also found truth in numerology. Although Im not a fan of mathematics or physics- numbers, are the only things that cannot be disputed-
How could you deny 1+1=2
Numerology studies our name/birthday in terms of numbers & there energy.
How does it work? Example, if you were born 12 March, 1981 = 3+1+2+1+9+8+1 = 7
(10= 1+0, 11= 1+1, 12= 1+2. etc...)
***I'm # 7 ~ What I found interesting is my closest friends & even my brother (who I have a love/hate relationship with) are mainly #3 & #5 = my most compatible numbers, thats when i began delving deeper into numerology is about exchange of ENERGY - like the zodiac wheel:
House 7 = sign of Libra which rules partner ships, marriage, commitment, more so on an impersonal level unlike the 8th house of sex & intimacy ~ both are needed to sustain a long term relationship - friendship & sex are important.
~ LUCKY NUMBER SEVEN.
~Tarot card = CHARIOT
3 & 5 Compatibility (and vice versa)
This is an excellent combination, but because the partners are so compatible, they sometimes enhance each other’s less desirable traits as well.
John is upbeat, expressive, creative and playful. However, John is not always focused and the results of John’s productivity are not always useful. Mary generates a similar, sometimes restless energy. Mary, though, is more directed towards social activities, interacting with other people. Mary’s life style is dynamic and, if the decision is in Mary’s hand alone, this life style will involve lots of travel. If you happen to share a home, John and Mary, you will have little trouble creating a living environment and a life style suitable to both.
You both communicate well. Your verbal abilities make you a popular couple. In fact, one of the things that could trip you up is the popularity and easy social interacting, since you both - but Mary in particular - may have a tendency to become jealous of your partner. You both thrive on playing center stage, you both want to be in the spotlight, and this may cause an uncomfortable competitive atmosphere.
John, Mary can, at times, say things on the spur of the moment that are hurtful or reveal an underlying problem. You would do well reading between the lines, because, whatever it is, Mary probably won’t spell it out. Similarly, John likes to skim over the deeper issues in life, especially those in the emotional sphere. Mary needs to be aware that, even after being close to John for many years, much about John will never be revealed. This shows that, if you are not careful, the two of you could be experiencing deep inner turmoil, and your partner might not be aware of it.
The three and the five get along very well. John likes the way Mary acts and talks. Mary has a wonderful time with John’s wacky sense of humor and upbeat nature. It is a good combination that can last a lifetime. If problems arise and reach the kind of proportions that put this relationship in jeopardy, it is usually because the partners didn’t listen carefully to each other. Both the three and the five have a tendency to keep emotional problems on the back shelf instead of dealing with them. Then, once the turbulence reaches the surface, it is too late and the end comes swift and final. John and Mary, you have to pay attention to each other. Watch for subtle signs of discomfort or anger, and deal with it immediately in an open, direct and compassionately way. That is the key to sharing an inspiring, creative, lively, happy life.
3 & 7 Compatibility (and vice versa)
This combination of numbers in this part of the chart is particularly interesting. John and Mary, the different natures of the three and seven make for a relationship that either lasts for about two weeks before going up in flames, or remains exciting and powerful for a lifetime. If your relationship has existed for quite some time and can be considered stable, you may well be soul mates for life. If the relationship started recently and has already experienced considerable ups and downs, you should be prepared to let go. It is also quite common for this combination to turn from romance into deep friendship immediately after a romantic fall-out.
John has a restless, energetic, unconventional mind that happily explores the boundaries of creativity and originality. Like a kaleidoscope, the mind of the three changes colors and shapes and enchants those around it. Mary has a much more serious, but no less unconventional way of looking at life. Mary is an untiring seeker of truth and understanding. Mary gets great satisfaction out of quiet moments of contemplation and soul searching. In fact, Mary thrives on the clarity and realizations that come from such moments and from moments of spiritual enlightenment, which are common to those found with the seven in this part of the chart.
As you can see, you have very different approaches in the way you think. But, on the other hand, you have in common the fact that you both are unconventional and not afraid to wander off the beaten path. Although you have different needs and you find your happiness in very different ways, such ways are not incompatible. John and Mary, it is precisely your uniquely different intellects that make this relationship lively and interesting. You complement each other. You give each other something you would not be able to give yourself. John brings sunshine and an intuitive faith to Mary, while Mary offers John a taste of the beauty found in exploring the depths of life itself. Like the sun and the moon, you supply light and comfort. Although on opposite ends of the spectrum in some ways, you bring light and comfort to each other’s life and, as long as you don’t compete for each other’s space, you can live in great harmony.
